There was a study done where they got a man to harass a woman in the park
and then they did it the other way around.
Several stopped the man but they let the woman slap and scream
and yank his hair.
They asked a professional who concluded that compared to men,
women aren’t seen as enough to be a threat.

My friend’s principal from three years ago
took his kids and ran
because he kept showing up to work
with bruises put there weekly by his loving wife
and everyone told him to take it like a man.

Last week I listened as a guy laughed off the idea
that a woman could violate him
and I thought of an interview on a news show
where they showed a boy who flinched inwards
every time a girl touched him
because of the exact reason the guy laughed off.

When compared to men,
Women aren’t seen as a threat
so men feel free to take whatever they like.

Women aren’t seen as a threat
so no one takes men seriously
when a woman
breaks them open.

'When a Girl Slaps a Guy on a Sitcom It's Hilarious: Why Guys Need Feminism,' theappleppielifestyle. (via theappleppielifestyle)

Can I just say that it’s so nice to see something about women abusing men that doesn’t try to say feminism is the root of all evil, and in fact realizes the sexism against women is part of why this shit happens?

(via faeriviera)

posted on Apr, 20th at 1:26AM with 17,092 notes
holiday hiatus 

okay so i thought that i would have wifi but i don’t and my queue was empty earlier than I thought it would be? 

well i hope that you all are doing well and i love you all and i will be back on tuesday night probably 

posted on Apr, 20th at 12:40AM with 1 note
❝ I have often wondered how it is that every man loves himself more than all the rest of men, but yet sets less value on his own opinion of himself than on the opinion of others. ❞
— Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (via quotes-shape-us)
posted on Apr, 20th at 12:35AM with 175 notes
chubbi139 wondered:
Once you get this you have to say 5 nice things about yourself publicly, and then send it to ten of your favorite followers

aii, thank you !

1. i have been told that i smell nice

2. i am quite a good listener

3. i am not that bad with words

4. i have pretty calves

5. i think that my clothing style is nice

(i won’t send it because im on my sisters laptop but if you read it u should do this because you are amazing)

posted on Apr, 19th at 8:58PM


my loves, i will be gone over easter, i will have wifi but no laptop, so i won’t be blogging much, but I will check my inbox regularly :)

i set up a queue but it’s not very full so hm

I hope you all are having a lovely time

posted on Apr, 19th at 5:33AM with 4 notes


A big fuck you to the assholes who think that faking a mental illness makes them cute or quirky, and a big shoutout to the people who actually require the attention that is wasted on the assholes. 

posted on Apr, 19th at 3:41AM with 19,171 notes




posted on Apr, 19th at 1:51AM with 243,466 notes
❝ I’ve stopped being sorry for all my soft. I won’t apologise because I miss you, or because I said it, or because I text you first, or again. I think everyone spends too much time trying to close themselves off. I don’t want to be cool or indifferent, I want to be honest. If I love you at 5AM, I’d damn well rather that you know I felt it. If I love you two hours later, I’ll tell you then too. Listen, I won’t wait double the time it takes for you to text me back because I don’t want to. I don’t care enough to be patient with you. I’m happy, you made me feel that way, don’t you want to know? So that’s how it’s going to be. I’m going to leave myself as open as a church door. And I’m going to wake you up before the crack of dawn to tell you that I’m fucking joyful, no pretending, not from me, not ever. Would you like some coffee, would you please kiss me? Here, these are my hands, this is my mouth, it is all yours. ❞
— Azra.T “Don’t Wait Three Days to Text First.”
posted on Apr, 18th at 10:09PM with 75,202 notes


I love art - no.47

Konstantin Razumov, Russian  (1860—1939).

posted on Apr, 18th at 8:19PM with 27,626 notes



Sweet Photos of a Senior Golden Retriever Snuggling with Baby Chicks. Remember Champ, the happiest dog in the world? His owner, 21-year-old Candice Sedighan, just shared with us a new series of photos she’s taken of the adorable dog and his newfound friends. All Photos by Candice Sedighan via  My Modern Metropolis  ~ Older dogs are adorable, too.♥

olden retrievers are the best

posted on Apr, 18th at 6:28PM with 21,042 notes


idk some old school Parisian criminals i guess

wooooaahh. look at the mood in this thing. awesome, miki!



idk some old school Parisian criminals i guess

wooooaahh. look at the mood in this thing. awesome, miki!

posted on Apr, 18th at 4:37PM with 255 notes

On my way home


On my way home

posted on Apr, 18th at 2:46PM with 134,033 notes
In the delivery room 


mother: is it a boy or a girl?

doctor: *puts baby between teeth* it’s a metaphor

posted on Apr, 18th at 12:55PM with 99,739 notes


Bahorel adopts a dog and tells everyone about how freaking epic his dog is and how Thunder can crush anyone who gets in the way and they all come over to his apartment to see the dog and 


posted on Apr, 18th at 11:04AM with 1,852 notes



just a small town girl. Living in a racist, insensitive, sexist, homophobic world,

(cant take the midnight train ‘cause im fuckin scared)

posted on Apr, 18th at 9:14AM with 453,929 notes